Saturday 7 April 2012


When I was 15 I had my first intercourse with the man who was 30 years older than me, he was my friend's uncle. The girl lived in the village and was studying in the city I lived in. My mother knew her parents some how, and on the school exams I met her , and we decided that we could give her a bed in my room and she could live with us. So she did, and we were going back and forth between her village and city. One day her uncle come to visit, and offered to take us to the night club. So we were pretty excited to go, we weren’t able to buy any alcoholic drinks but we were able to enter and have a nice time dancing. When we arrived there (around 20 minutes by car) he asks me to stay in the car and the girls to go and have fun, and when we all questioned him he said he needed to talk to me. So they agree to go, and I assure them that I will be fine. That was the worst decision, he said it’s my choice, or I will have sex with him or he will leave us there and we will have to come home on our own. So after contemplation and discussing situation with him, I agree to have sex with him , but I didn’t have any other choice. That was the worst thing ever , I felt dirty, ashamed and so so bad. I have met with him a few more times, as he would say that he will tell everyone, taking into consideration that I didn’t want anyone to know I would do whatever he wanted me to do. But one day I just said enough, and so he went and told people that he had sex with me including that girl's father. So her father called me names, he said I am a whore and so on. I had to leave their house with the next bus, so I did. Later on I went to the library to check what can I do to protect myself from that whole situation, I find out that I can sue him, but I thought I will keep it safe just in case if anything will happen. This girl still lived with me for a couple months, and we barely spoke to each other. One day, some time after the incident her mother comes over to visit and it was me and her only and so she told me that her brother's wife want’s (the girl uncle)to come over to my parents and tell them the whole situation. I was scared and said that if she would do that her husband will go to prison and so I have never heard from him or her since then.